40+ Sympathy & Condolence Messages to Use When Someone’s Father Dies

Sentiments and quotations to help you convey your condolences with grace

Co-authored by Moira Khan and Annabelle Reyes

Last Updated: August 22, 2025 Fact Checked

The death of a father is an incredibly difficult experience, and it often leaves the grieving person reeling. If someone in your life has recently lost their father, you likely want to show your love and support. You’ve come to the right place—we’ll go over a thorough list of ways to offer your condolences to someone who’s lost their father, whether they’re your friend, relative, coworker, or boss. We’ll also provide examples of things to write in sympathy cards, as well as quotes to share with the grieving person.

How to Be There for Someone Who's Lost Their Dad

Grief educator Moira Khan says the best thing you can do for someone who has lost their father is to let them know you're there for them. Check in and offer to listen if they want to talk. Avoid saying things that minimize their grief, like "I know how you feel" or "He's in a better place now." Try saying things like:

"I'm so sorry for your loss."
"I'm sorry to hear about your dad. He was an amazing person and will be missed."
"I'm here for you if there's anything you need."
"You are in my thoughts during this difficult time."

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“I’m so sorry for your loss, and I’m here for whatever you need.”

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Express how sorry you are about their loss and offer your support. It can be nerve-wracking to think of the right thing to say to someone who has lost their father, but try to just focus on being sincere and genuine. Grief is complicated and powerful, and there is no “perfect” thing to say. Your job is simply to offer your sympathies and make them feel heard, rather than trying to make their grief go away.^{[1]
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Research source} Speak from your heart, and let them know you’re there to help in any way you can.
- “I heard about your father’s passing, and I just wanted to say I’m so sorry. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do to support you—I’m here for whatever you need.”
- “I was so sorry to hear about your dad. I know you must be going through a lot right now, and I want you to know I’m here for you.”
- “I know there’s nothing I can say to make this easier, but I just wanted to let you know I’m here for you and I’m so sorry for your loss. If there’s anything I can do to help, please let me know.”
- “I’m so sorry about your dad’s passing. He seemed like a truly amazing person, and I know he’ll be missed.”

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“I'm sorry to hear about your father's passing. He was a truly amazing man.”

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For a friend whose father has passed, say something personal and heartfelt. If you’ve never met their father before, focus on acknowledging their loss and offering your support at this tough time.^{[2]
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- "I’m so sorry about your dad. I want you to know that I’m here for whatever you need. Whether that be talking things through, or doing some chores and running errands for you, just ask and I’m there!”
- “Your dad inspired a lot of people—me included. I’m so sorry for your loss, and I want you to know that I’m available to help in any way I can.”
- “Your father was such a kind person, and I feel lucky to have met him. I’m so sorry for your loss, and I’m here if you want to talk.”
- “I’m so sorry about your dad’s passing. He was one of the coolest people I’ve ever met, and I’m so glad I got a chance to get to know him. If you need anything at all, I’m here to help.”
- “I admired your dad so much, and I know he’s going to be so greatly missed. I’m so sorry for your loss, and if there’s anything I can do to help you through this, I’m here.”
- “I’m so grateful I got the chance to get to know your dad. I’ll always remember the time he took us on that amazing camping trip when we were kids. I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss.”
- Your dad was such a special person, and I was so sad to hear of his passing. I’m thinking of you and your family, and if there’s anything I can do for you all just let me know.”

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“Your father was such a loved member of our family, and we’ll miss him so much.”

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For a relative whose father passed, acknowledge their loss and share in their grief. Since you and the grieving person are relatives, there’s a good chance that you knew their father well, and you’re likely also grieving. He might have even been your uncle, grandfather, or cousin. While you express your sympathies for their loss, feel free to mention special memories with their father, how much he meant to you, and what you’ll miss about him.
- “Your dad was such a loved member of our family. He always brightened my day, and I’ll miss him so much. I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss.”
- “I’m so sorry about your dad’s passing. I feel so lucky to have known him, and he will be deeply missed. If there’s anything I can do to help you through this, don’t hesitate to ask.”
- “I have such great memories of your dad. I’ll always remember him as a kind and caring person, and our family isn’t the same without him. I’m here for you, and I’m so sorry for your loss.”
- “I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am about your dad’s passing. I always loved being around him, and I’ll miss his kind personality and great jokes. If you need anything, I’m here for you.”
- “I know how close you and your dad were, and I just wanted to say I’m so sorry for your loss. He was truly an inspiring person, and we’ll all miss him so much.”

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“I'm thinking of you during this difficult time and I'm here to support you in any way you need.”

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For a coworker whose dad died, express your sympathy and respect their space. It can be overwhelming to return to work and receive a ton of condolences at once, so you’ll want to give the coworker the time to grieve privately if need be. Share a heartfelt message of support without prying or asking them too many questions about what happened. If you’re able to, offer to help with their workload to give them a bit of reprieve at this difficult time.^{[3]
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- Here are some examples of sympathy messages for coworkers:
  - “I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your father, and I wanted to let you know I’m here for you. If there’s anything I can do to make your load a little lighter here at work as you navigate this tough time, please don’t hesitate to ask.”
  - “I’m so sorry about your dad. He sounded like such a kind and genuine person. I just wanted to say that I’m here for you, and that I’ll be checking in over the next few days to help if you need anything at all.”
  - “I wanted to let you know how sorry I am about the loss of your dad. I’m always free to talk, or to take some things off your plate if you’re feeling overwhelmed.”
  - “I’m so sorry about your dad’s passing. If you need anything at all, please don’t hesitate to call! I’m here for you no matter what.”
- Here are some examples if you’re offering condolences on behalf of the whole team:
  - “We’re so sorry about the loss of your father. Our thoughts are with you, and we’re here to help in any way we can.”
  - “The whole team is heartbroken about the loss of your dad. We’re here to support you through this tough time in whatever way you might need.”
  - “On behalf of the whole team, please accept our sincerest condolences for the loss of your father. You and your family are in our thoughts.”
  - “We want to offer our condolences for the loss of your father. The whole team is thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.”

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“Please accept my sincerest condolences for the loss of your father.”

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In a sympathy card, write a longer, more detailed message. Writing a condolence letter is a great option because it allows the grieving person to re-read your heartfelt words many times.^{[4]
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- “Dear Chloe, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. I didn’t have the pleasure of meeting him, but I feel like I came to know and admire him through your amazing stories about him. I know there’s nothing I can say to take your pain away at this unimaginable time, but I wanted to let you know that I’m here to support you in any way you might need. You and your family are always in my thoughts, and I’ll be sending love and positive energy your way.”
- “Dear Rowan, I’m so sorry for your loss. I never got to meet your father, but I know he must have been an incredible man if he raised someone as amazing as you. If there is anything I can do to help you through this tough time, I’m always here for you. Sending you and your family all my love.”
- “Dear Vera, I am so sorry about the loss of your dad. He was truly an incredible man, and I feel so lucky to have known him. I’ll always cherish the memories of the time we spent together, and I know he’ll be deeply missed by all who know and love him. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do to support you at this difficult time. I’m always here for you, whether you need someone to talk to, someone to drop off dinner for you and your family, or just a shoulder to cry on.”
- “Dear Idris, Please accept my deepest sympathies for the passing of your father. He inspired so many people, and I’ve always admired his kindness, integrity, and generosity. He was a great man, and he will be greatly missed.”
- “Dear Phoebe, On behalf of me and my family, we wanted to offer our sincerest condolences for the loss of your father. He touched the lives of so many people, including us. We’re thinking of you at this tough time, and we’re here to help in any way you might need.”
- ”Dear David, Our whole family is deeply saddened by the news of your dad’s passing. We feel so lucky to have known him, and we’ll always cherish our memories of him, especially the time we spent on skiing trips together. We’re always here to support you in any way we can, and we’re sending you all our love.
- ”Dear Priya, On behalf of our family, please accept our deepest condolences. Your father was such a special man, and we all feel honored to have been a part of his life. You’re in our thoughts at this difficult time, and if there is anything we can do to support you, please don’t hesitate to let us know.”

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“Life has to end. Love doesn’t.” —Mitch Albom

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If you're not sure what to say to someone grieving their dad, share a quote. This typically works best in sympathy cards, emails, or text messages, rather than in-person encounters. However, meaningful quotes can also be a great addition to a eulogy if you're speaking at the funeral. Pick a quote that resonates with you, and add it to your handwritten note, digital message, or eulogy to offer some comfort, inspiration, and uplifting energy at this difficult time.
- “Only people who are capable of loving strongly can also suffer great sorrow, but this same necessity of loving serves to counteract their grief and heals them.” ― Leo Tolstoy^{[5]
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- “What is grief, if not love persevering?” — Vision in the TV show WandaVision^{[6]
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- “How lucky am I to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.”— A.A. Milne^{[7]
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- “Never. We never lose our loved ones. They accompany us; they don’t disappear from our lives. We are merely in different rooms.” — Paulo Coelho^{[8]
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- “The pain passes, but the beauty remains.” — Pierre Auguste Renoir^{[9]
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- "And when great souls die, after a period peace blooms, slowly and always irregularly. Spaces fill with a kind of soothing electric vibration. Our senses, restored, never to be the same, whisper to us. They existed. They existed. We can be. Be and be better. For they existed.”— Maya Angelou^{[10]
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- “Tis’ better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” — Alfred Lord Tennyson^{[11]
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- “Unable are the loved to die, for love is immortality.” — Emily Dickinson^{[12]
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- "An honest man here lies at rest, the friend of man, the friend of truth, the friend of age, and guide of youth: few hearts like his, with virtue warm'd, few heads with knowledge so inform'd; if there's another world, he lives in bliss; if there is none, he made the best of this.” — Robert Burns^{[13]
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- "Nature’s first green is gold, her hardest hue to hold. Her early leaf’s a flower; but only so an hour. Then leaf subsides to leaf. So Eden sank to grief, so dawn goes down to day. Nothing gold can stay.”— Robert Frost^{[14]
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