225+ Romantic Good Night Messages to Give Her Sweet Dreams

Sure, you could send a short and sweet goodnight text to your crush, girlfriend, or partner…but why not level it up a bit? With this ultimate list of good night wishes and messages for any lovely lady in your life, you’ll be sure to make her laugh, smile, and feel oh-so-loved write before drifting off to dreamland. Plus, we spoke to a group of expert dating coaches for their insights on what types of messages to send (and how to craft them). Just don’t let the bed bugs bite!

The Best Good Night Wishes for Her

Dating coach John Keegan advises sending a good night message that reinforces “your adoration or love,” like “Good night and, in case you forgot, I think you’re the cutest girl that’s ever lived.” Here are some other sweet, romantic ideas:

Words cannot express how much I adore you. Good night, my love 🤍
If you promise to dream of me, I promise to dream of you. Good night! 💌🥱❤️
I hope this text makes you smile before you drift off 😊💤
Baby, you must be exhausted from looking so good all the time! Go to bed! 😘
See you in my dreams—literally 😉💭

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Heartfelt & Romantic Good Night Messages for Her

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A classic good night text for your girlfriend, wife, or partner will let her know how much you care about her while sending her sweetly off to sleep. Depending on the vibe you want to give off, one idea for a romantic good night text is to “tell [her] what she means to you and how her love has changed your life for the better,” says dating coach and matchmaker Crista Beck.^{[1]
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Crista Beck
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Expert Interview} Here are some other heart-touching message ideas:
- Good night, my angel. May your dreams be filled with happiness and love.
- Wishing you the sweetest dreams as you drift off to sleep.
- As you close your eyes tonight, know that my heart is always with you. Sweet dreams.
- Good night, beautiful. You’re the best part of my day, and I’ll be dreaming of you.
- Good night, my love. You make my world complete.
- May angels watch over you tonight. Sleep well, my angel 👼
- Sending you kisses. Good night!
- Rest well, my queen. I’ll love you more tomorrow than I do today.
- Sleep tight, my love. I’ll be dreaming of holding you in my arms 🫂
- I just couldn't sleep without saying I love you. Good night!! I love you!
- Thank you for making me feel so special and lucky. Good night, baby!
- I love you to the moon and back. Call me when you wake up :)
- Wishing you a restful night filled with lovely dreams of us—good night, my love!
- You make my heart so happy. Sweet dreams!
- Good night, my dear. I hope your day was as beautiful as you are!
- Somehow, I love you more and more with each passing day. Rest well, baby.
- Words cannot express how much I adore you. Good night, my love 🤍
- You are the most special person in my life. I hope you sleep peacefully, darling!
- As you drift into sleep, remember that I’ll be here waiting to see your beautiful smile in the morning. Sleep tight, honey!
- The best way to start my day is to tell you good morning. The best way to end my day is by wishing you goodnight.
- I wish I were there to hold you tight, instead of just sending you this loving “good night.”
- I'm falling asleep listening to our song. I love you. Good night.
- Just wanted to thank you for always making me feel so loved. Good night, babe.
- Good night, my love! I can't wait for the day when we always fall asleep and wake up with one another.
- I’m sending you a virtual kiss...hope it stays with you all night long 💋
Meet the wikiHow Experts

Kristina Mirgorodskaya is a dating coach and the Marketing Director of Amiccio, a social app that helps singles make new connections.

John Keegan is a dating and relationships coach with over 15 years of experience in helping people find and maintain romantic relationships.

Crista Beck is a dating coach, relationship coach, and matchmaker with over 15 years of experience in helping people become open to love and find a partner.

Renee Slansky is a dating, relationship, and life coach who serves as a global dating advisor to several of the largest online publications and dating platforms in the world.

Lauren Sanders is a matchmaker and dating coach with over four years of experience in helping singles find love.

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Cute & Sweet Good Night Messages for Her

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If you’ve been dating your girl for a while, Keegan suggests to reinforce your adoration and love with a sweet text like, “‘just in case you didn’t know, you’re the cutest girl that’s ever lived.’”^{[2]
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Expert Interview} If this is a newer relationship and you’ve just been on a date, “mentioning a nice moment from the date you just had could be a good way to finish the night and cement a memory of each other that evening,” says dating expert Kristina Mirgorodskaya. “You can also hint at something fun or interesting to do for the next date so that they have something to look forward to.”^{[3]
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Kristina Mirgorodskaya
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Expert Interview} Here are some more suggestions:
- Good night, baby. I’m already looking forward to your good morning text!
- Good night, honey. Dream of me, please!
- Sleep tight, sweetheart 💌🥱❤️
- If you promise to dream of me, I promise to dream of you. Good night!
- Good night, sweetheart. I have to fall asleep faster, so we can be together sooner!
- Is it pathetic that I miss you already? (On second thought, don’t answer that). Good night to the girl who lives rent-free in my mind!
- Goodnight to the cutest girl in the world.
- Wouldn't it be so sweet to share a toothbrush stand? Matching bedside tables? Say “good night” face-to-face? Just something to think about!
- Good night! I don’t know what you’ll be dreaming about, but I'm dreaming of the life we're going to share together.
- Dream sweet dreams, my love.
- This isn't as good as whispering sweet nothings in your ear…but it's close! I love you so much!
- Couldn't let you go to sleep without reminding you of how much I love you! Good night, my little love bug! 🐞🩷
- Tonight was lovely. You are lovely. Sleep well, beautiful.
- Sending you a big hug. Good night, my love.
- NGL, I might be up all night thinking about you!
- I miss you already…sweet dreams.
- I hope this text makes you smile before you drift off 😊
- Good night, beautiful. Sending you good vibes for a great day tomorrow!
- I’m already thinking about the good morning text I’ll send to you!
- I hope the day has been good to you, darling. Good night <3
- Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of youuuuu and I love you. Good night, my princess!
- Night night, sweet face.
- I love you to the moon and back 🌙 Good night, my goddess.
- Hoping you get a ton of rest tonight, baby<3
- I wish we could stay up all night talking!! I love you!! Good night!
- Even when the moon is out, you still light up my world. Good night, my sunshine ☀️

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Flirty & Spicy Good Night Messages for Her

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If you’re ~in the mood~ to send something more flirtatious, don’t be afraid to work some spice into your “good night” text message! As a rule, when sending this type of message, “keep things light and fun,” says dating coach Renee Slansky. “If you try to go into full seduction mode, it could come across as really cheesy or too sexual.”^{[4]
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Renee Slansky
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Expert Interview} However, if you’re in a long-term relationship, you and your partner may have a more established rapport (where something cheesy or super sexy might be okay). Here are some other spicy, dirty text ideas to wish your bae good night:^{[5]
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- I want to fall asleep with our limbs all tangled up together…but for now, I’ll just wish you goodnight.
- My bed is missing you as badly as I am 🥵
- What do you think we'd be doing if we were together in bed RN?
- I'm only a text away if you feel lonely tonight…
- My bed is nowhere near as comfortable as being in your arms. Good night, honey.
- It's going to be tough to fall asleep thinking about how much I want you.
- Baby, you must be exhausted from looking so good all the time!
- I’m sending you all my thoughts tonight, and trust me, they’re very, very naughty 😈
- If you were here right now, I bet you'd be doing a much better job of keeping me warm than my blankets are.
- I can’t stop thinking about what I want to do to you when we finally meet again. Sleep tight…but not too tight.
- Goodnight, sexy. I wish I could feel your body pressed up against mine tonight ♥️
- I'd much rather be between your sheets right now…good night baby <3
- I hope you have a good night’s sleep, but I won’t, because snuggling under my covers just isn't the same as snuggling with you!
- I’d say sweet dreams, but I know exactly what I’ll be dreaming about tonight. I hope you’re ready for it.
- I’d say sweet dreams, but I already know you’ll be dreaming of me 😜
- Good night! Unless…you want to stay up and chat? (You're definitely worth losing sleep over!)
- My bed feels so empty without you in it. I love you. Good night.
- You're always the woman OF my dreams, but tonight you’ll also be the woman IN my dreams!
- Be ready to get hooked on your phone because my goodnight texts are about to get dirty 😉
- I can’t sleep! I started thinking about you, and it started getting REALLY hot in here!
- I plan on having very dirty dreams about you tonight 😏
- If we were together, I'm sure we wouldn't be getting any sleep tonight!
- Good night, beautiful. I bet you look so sexy cuddled in your blankets…but not as sexy as you’d look cuddled next to me!
- Are you too tired to text? Because I’m ready to play 😛😛
- I want you. I wish you were here right now.
- Wanna guess what I'm wearing to bed tonight? (Spoiler: nothing)
- My sheets still smell of you…I miss you. Good night ♥️

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Comforting & Inspirational Good Night Messages for Her

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We all have tough days, but having a partner who can support us can make those heavy times feel lighter. If your girl has been having a rough time lately, you can let her know that you were “thinking about her” and hope she’s feeling better, suggests Keegan.^{[6]
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John Keegan
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Expert Interview} Or, try another one of the motivating and comforting good night messages below:
- I know you’re tired, but I hope you fall asleep knowing you’re deeply loved.
- After a hard day's work, you deserve the sweetest dreams. Good night!
- I hope you're able to get to bed early tonight. I know you've been stressed, and you deserve rest. Good night, baby.
- Good night! May you find peace tonight and strength tomorrow. You’ve got this!
- Today may have been tough, but knowing you're there for me always makes things a little easier. G’nite :)
- If I don’t say it often enough, you’re my favorite person ever, and I’m inspired by you every day. Rest easy, superhero 🦸💜
- I’m here for you all day, every day. But tonight, all I want is for you to get some rest. Nighty-night!
- I HATE that you’re going through such a hard time. Just know that you always have me in your corner, and I truly believe that you’re the most amazing person in the entire world. Good night to the most INCREDIBLE human.
- Good night, my hardworking queen. I appreciate you and ALL that you do. I love you.
- I love you way more than I care about any of the other ‘stuff’ life throws at us. I’m in this with you, and I’ll be by your side forever and always. Good night, sweetheart.
- Good night! Rest well, for tomorrow is another chance to chase your dreams!
- Forget the stress of today, because tomorrow is a new day. Good night, honey!
- I don’t know anyone as strong, brave, and capable as you. Tomorrow, you’ll make sure that everyone knows that. Tonight, just get some sleep. I love you 😗
- Good night, my love. Tomorrow is just another chance to chase our dreams together!
- End your day knowing that you’ve made progress, no matter how small. Keep going—you're unstoppable!
- I’m sorry you’re under so much pressure right now. I’m here for everything that you need. Sweet dreams, sweetie ❤️
- Close your eyes and drift into dreamland. You've earned it. Good night, baby.
- May this night bring you peace and relaxation. Sleep tight!
- Sleep well, sweetheart. Never forget how amazing and capable you are.
- Sending you a warm hug and a kiss good night after a long day 🤗💋
- Wishing you a better day tomorrow, honey. I love you!
- The day may be over, but your dreams are just beginning. Keep reaching for the stars!
- You've had a long day. Rest well, my love. Good night.
- Hey, baby. Just so you know, you are crushing it in the most important ways. I love you. Get a good night’s sleep :)
- Good night, my love. You make my world so much brighter. Keep shining!! 🔆🔆🔆

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Playful & Funny Good Night Messages for Her

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Want to make your girl drift off to sleep with a smile on her face? Shoot off a funny, playful, or goofy text right before bedtime! Mirgorodskaya suggests keeping your message “light and playful, without being too long-winded.”^{[7]
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Expert Interview} All of these funny good night message examples fit that bill to a T:^{[8]
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- Good night! You must be so tired from running through my mind all day!
- See you in my dreams—literally 😉
- ICYWW, even your morning breath and bedhead are cute!
- Good night, sleep tight, don’t let the bedbugs bite—unless they’re adorable like you!
- Don't forget to brush your teeth! And floss! Okay, that's it—good night.
- Good night! I’ll be dreaming of pizza…feel free to join me.
- Sleep well and dream of your favorite person…me!
- Good night, my love! Let me know if you need me to keep you safe from the monsters under your bed! 👹
- I'd call and sing you a lullaby, but that would probably cause you nightmares. Anyways, good night!
- Sleep well, my dream girl. Just remember, if you dream about zombies, aim for the head!
- Sleep well, my dear. Just remember, you’re cooler than the other side of my pillow!
- Sleep tight! And if you snore, I’ll hear it from here.
- Good night, love! (This is your sign to put your phone down.)
- Hoping you savor a night without my snoring. Sleep well!
- Good night, sleep well, and remember that tomorrow is another day to procrastinate.
- Nighty night! If I snore in your dreams, I apologize in advance.
- I’m sending sleep angels to come watch over you while you sleep. I just hope they don’t get scared by your loud snores!
- Psst: time to close your eyes! 💤💤💤
- Good night! Don’t stay up TOO late scrolling!
- I could text you all night, but then we’d be too tired to text all day. Nighty-nite!
- Good night! Don’t let the bedbugs bite…but if they do, at least they’ll get a taste of perfection!
- Hurry and go to sleep…so you can dream of me!
- There's a reason they call it 'beauty sleep.' Just look in the mirror, sleepyhead! 🪞😜
- Good night, hot stuff. Sleep well, but keep those dreams spicy!
- I think we really ought to move in together at this point. Texting "good night" isn't cutting it!
- Missing you, my starfish ⭐ Yes, you totally take up the whole bed (and I love it!!)

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Good Night Quotes for Her

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Why come up with your own good night wish if someone else has already said it better? These quotes are the perfect way to wish your girlfriend good night in the same way that the world’s greatest poets and authors would. Plus, you’ll get bonus points if you pick a quote by a public figure that your gf loves or admires! Here are some quotes to choose from:^{[9]
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- “By night, beloved, tie your heart to mine and let them both in dreams defeat the darkness.” – Pablo Neruda
- “You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” – Dr. Seuss
- “Listen to the night sky, the mockingbird always sings you my lullaby.” – Jmemo
- “Let her sleep, for when she wakes, she will shake the world.” – Napoleon Bonaparte
- “The moon is full, the night is deep, nature is alive—the only thing missing is you, next to me as we sleep.” – Nicholas Staniszewski
- “I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night.” – When Harry Met Sally
- “I can’t close my eyes without you in my dreams.” – Luke Bryan
- “For thousands of nights, I dreamed of making love to you. No man on Earth has ever hated sunrise as I do.” – Lisa Kleypas
- “Hell exists. It is here, 3 a.m., awake and without you.” – Beau Taplin
- “We only part to meet again.” – John Gay
- “May I kiss you then? On this miserable paper? I might as well open the window and kiss the night air.” – Franz Kafka
- “When I got to bed and cannot sleep, I don’t waste time by counting sheep; I count all my blessings, one by one. Good night.” – Eldred Herbert
- “Sleep, my love, dream happy dreams. You are the only one who has ever touched my heart. It will forever be yours.” – Stephenie Meyer
- “Take a look out your window now. Although we may be apart at the moment, we can both gaze up at the same moon. Good night.” – Sid Mohanty
- “My night has become a sunny dawn because of you.” – Ibn Abbad
- “I have late-night conversations with the moon. He tells me about the sun; I tell him about you.” – S. L. Gray
- “You’ll be the last thing I think of before I fall asleep and the first thing I think of when I wake up.” – A. G. Henley
- “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.” – A. A. Milne
- “If I had a flower for every time I thought of you…I could walk through my garden forever.” – Alfred Tennyson
- “I close my eyes, then I drift away, into the magic night I softly say. A silent prayer, like dreamers do, then I fall asleep to dream of you.” – Roy Orbison
- “When I want you in my arms, when I want you and all your charms, whenever I want you, all I gotta do is dream.” – The Everly Brothers
- “The time between good night to good morning, all poetries are mentioned by her with his love and their good memories.” – Vaishal Sheth
- “You are the finest, loveliest, tenderest and most beautiful person I have ever known and even that is an understatement.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald
- “I saw that you were perfect, and so I loved you. Then I saw that you were not perfect and I loved you even more.” – Angelita Lim
- “And I start sleeping and dreaming and I think I’ll dream about you all through the night.” – John Mayer
- “Dreaming of you is my greatest escape.” – Perry Poetry
- “"The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” – Audrey Hepburn
- “If I know what love is, it is because of you.” – Herman Hesse
- “A boy is holding a girl so very tight in his arms tonight.” – Edward VIII
- “Each day I love you more, today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.” – Rosemonde Gerard

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Good Night Messages with Emojis

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Emojis are a great way to make a routine good night text feel more fun, whimsical, personalized, and creative!^{[10]
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Expert Interview} Other creative options for a sweet goodnight text, according to matchmaker and dating coach Lauren Sanders, include sending a “cute emoji, a heartfelt meme, a GIF, a picture quote from Pinterest, a YouTube video of a song that reminds you of them, a poem, an audio message, or even a video message.”^{[11]
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- I want to go everywhere ↕️↔️🌎 with you … but especially to bed!
- Me going to bed with you: 😃
  Me going to bed without you: ☹️
- I want to 💋you soooo bad…but for now, I’ll just wish you a good night ❤️
- You’re my ☀️, my 🌛, and my ⭐⭐⭐ Sweet dreams, baby!
- Sweet dreams to the person who has the 🔑 to my 🫀
- You are my 👑 and I hope you have the sweetest dreams tonight 💭😴
- Good night, my dearest! Don’t let the 🛏️🪲s bite!
- Every time I 👀 you, my ♥️ goes 💥 Go to sleep, and give my heart a break!
- Good night!! I wish I could 🚿you with 💋💋💋💋
- Sending you a virtual 🫂 and virtual 💋
- Life is all 🦄🦄🦄 and 🌈🌈🌈 when I’m with you! Good night to my 1️⃣ and only!
- Good night! I love you ♾️
- You’re my whole 🌍 Good night, baby 💙
- You are STINKING cute 💩💩💩 Now go to sleep!
- You are the 💡of my life…now take some time to recharge 💛
- good night, my love—now go catch some Zs! ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁
- Good night, honey 🩷I love you more than 🎂🍩🍪💰🌮🍕🍔
- Good night!! 👁+♥️+you
- I love you to the 🌝 and 🔙
- I love you, my sweet baby angel. Sweet dreams ☁️🌙🧸✨
- 😴😪🥱💤🛌🏼♥️😘🫂
- ☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️
  🌟☁️😌😌😌☁️☁️✨☁️
  ☁️😌😌☁️☁️😌☁️☁️
  😌😌☁️✨☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️
  😌😌☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️⁣☁️☁️
  😌😌☁️ Good Night ✨
  ☁️😌😌☁️☁️😌☁️☁️☁️
  ☁️☁️😌😌😌☁️☁️☁️☁️
  ☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️

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Good Night Messages for Long Distance Relationships

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Long-distance relationships can be tough, but one of the best ways to stay connected (at least according to our forum on the topic) is to text each other every day—which includes good night texts.^{[12]
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Expert Interview} You can really use any message idea on this page for your long-distance boo, but these message examples specifically touch on the distance between you…and the impatience you have for that gap to close:^{[13]
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- Distance may keep us apart, but our love brings us closer. Good night, darling.
- Sleeping without you by my side is hard, but the time will come when we won’t have to be separated anymore. Until then, let's meet in our dreams 💭🤗💛
- Counting the seconds until I can see you again…and maybe kiss you good night.
- Sleep well tonight, in the knowledge that our bond is strong, our future bright, and every night a step closer to being in each other's arms.
- Tonight, let's promise to meet in our dreams, in a place where distance and time don't exist. Good night, my love
- No matter how far away we may be, I’ll always find a way to reach you and touch your heart—even if, for now, it has to be through your phone.
- I wish I could teleport to you just for a goodnight kiss 😘
- Counting down the days until we get to cuddle until we fall asleep. Goodnight, my love.
- Even if I can’t be there, I’m sending you good vibes for an amazing day tomorrow!
- The only thing I want at the end of the day is time with you. I miss you so much, baby, and I can’t wait to see you soon.
- I love you. I want to rest my head on your chest, wish you goodnight, and fall asleep listening to your heartbeat.
- Sending you a virtual hug until I can see you again! 🫂
- As you drift into sleep, remember, our love knows no distance. I’m dreaming of the day that we no longer say goodnight via text!
- Though miles separate us, our dreams unite us. I can't wait to be with you in every waking moment AND in every dream.
- Can you feel me whispering 'goodnight' across the distance?
- The distance only makes me long for you more. Going to bed tonight gets us one night closer to being reunited!
- Though we're miles apart, in my heart, you're right here. Sleep well, dreaming of the day we're finally together.
- I’m feeling the distance tonight more than ever, but I know that our love bridges any gap. Sweet dreams to my one and only ❤️‍🔥🌉♾️

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Good Night Messages for a Female Friend

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Good night texts aren’t just for crushes, girlfriends, and wives—you can send them to your friends, too! If you want to shoot off a text to wish your best pal a good night’s sleep, here are some ideas for a kind, sweet, and platonic message:
- Enjoy the nice cool breeze and sleep well tonight! Good night!
- Talking to you before bed is such a treat. Sleep tight!
- Sleep soundly and wake up refreshed. You got this! 💪
- Good night! Thank you for always being there for me.
- Sleep well and know you're never alone—I've always got your back. Sweet dreams!
- I wish sleep weren't a thing, so we could just keep chatting all night! Night!
- Good night! I’m so thankful to have a friend like you
- I hope you're as snug as a bug in a rug as you drift off to sleep tonight! 🤗
- Rest up! (And if insomnia strikes, you know where to find me!)
- Sweet dreams to the most amazing friend a person can have! 🌠
- Hope you have an amazing night! Let’s chat more soon.
- Wishing you a peaceful night and restful sleep. You deserve it!
- Good night! If you see a monster under your bed, tell him I said hi 👹
- Good night! Can’t wait to catch up with you tomorrow.
- Sweet dreams! If you dream of penguins in tutus, let me know…
- Sleep tight! I’m grateful for your friendship every day :)
- Good night! Your kindness makes the world a better place.
- Good night! It was great connecting with you today.
- Good night! You’re the best, never forget that!
- Sleep tight, lovely lady! You deserve an amazing night of rest.
- Good night and sleep tight! You’re a ⭐ in my life.
- Hope you have the most peaceful and lovely evening. Good night!
- Sweet dreams, my dear friend. You brighten my days.
- Sweet dreams! Appreciating every moment we’ve shared.